Friday 28 December 2012

Gender Crisis

                                                  

let me not fight with the topic given for this article,' gender crisis'. yes there are  collisions and extreme push-pulls in so called gender equality. every where in various abilities we can see there is raise of the agenda called woman must be considered at par with man. this has brought me thinking. what does something called gender equality mean?basically the gender equality means that giving a freedom that man enjoys to woman as well. okay, when ever a people say, there must be a gender equality in the society or country, what does it truly mean? that in little way indicates that woman can also have preferences, scopes, and activities equally with a man. it is another way round too. man can have anything, do anything, and be anything as woman  have, does and is.at the present times, where male has dominated the race, it seems all man are one and supreme. and because of the generalized notion that every where man remains to be a hero in the family, something called gender equality has got its gate wide open in any high chair brains.As much as we have hero in the family there is a heroine too. is it necessary for a child to design one log book for their dad and mom to be always at ring. -no daddy you are not a boss and mummy aren't too. what does combine a woman and a man each other into one and par is some kind of social values, relations and respect. and this are more than pushing an agenda in assembly hall , there must be a gender equality. who locked woman inside the kitchen? nobody did.when people are getting more closer to the sky, every one is trying to lift up the legs. as much the equality is ensured it must be ensured in the two main branch-freedom and duty, with a balanced weight on each of it. so equality is not something we push or pull but it must tear or withstand. that's it where duty always comes along with freedom.woman is known for her soft heart, kindness and care. but modern women unlike ancient women jumps out in the ground and forgets her child back home. it is a change but is it a better or not is to be determined. man used to be warrior and never home but nowadays sometimes man occupies the kitchen most. so it is a social trend and law called gender equality which enforces something like quota to any sex may hamper the social trend and natural force. this will ultimately cause a gender crisis. if it is at all equal any sex don't necessarily need a quota, gifted opportunity or forceful placement.but because woman by nature has softer skin, they need a better oil. and to shield them is man's duty. but what makes more complex is everywhere ladies first, ladies seat, ladies rest room is there but how much of the lady deserve that kind of privileges is the question.in Bangalore i was travelling in city bus and i had my leg bit injured, i got a seat. one lady came and pointed to the window written 'ladies'. so what? she asked me to get out of the seat because it is for ladies. i pledged her with injured leg which was painful enough to keep standing. but no to my request i had to stand up. it drove me to think yes, girl's must be raped.but the thing is, that is she, that woman, not all girl. so i just realized as much as bad man, there is a worst woman. and if we go on thinking, there is a philosophical gender crisis which is beyond my present life.the best way is, your mom and sisters or wife are the best equal gender of you and as to girl your dad, brothers and husband will be the one. simply there is salt in chili and will taste good.

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